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March 13, 2010

You Arrange Your Feelings By Applying The 11 Forgotten Laws Of Attraction.

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The Universe does not matter nor size nor time. For the Space , it is the same simple job to provide one Euro or one million Euro. It is the same algorithmic program. The only cause , why the one Euro can come sooner then one billion , is your own imagination , that one billion Euro is much more money so it “have to” take longer to arrive and the one Euro is not that much cash so it can endure much less to come. You can get whole digital course 11 Forgotten Laws free.

For some people it is much easier to allure small stuff and this is also why I suggest you start experiencing with the small things. Begin with something small like free train ticket. Imagine yourself talking with an old friend of yours you have not seen long time. For some reason someone will declare that person in front of you. And the following thing that will transpire will be that you will whether receive call or meet that person.

To begin with something small is a great way to practice on your own the power of the 11 forgotten laws. After enough time of acknowledging you will know why when someone is talking all the time , without ironic , “I got a good luck , I always win something” , is winning one thing after another. These people are counting on it. Begin to count on big stuff and you will start to manage your own life.

Plan your day! You can use 11 Forgotten Laws to plan your whole future life , starting with the thing you will start doing right now. There are old papers from the history that are pointing out the importance of the future planing of your day. If you say to yourself : “Today will come an nice visit” or : “There is really pleasant tour waiting for me” , you are really spreading the forces of the Space before you , so they can plan things and your visit or tour could be nice. If you are in the bad mood before the visit , trip or just driving a car , or you are afraid of something bad that could happen and you are making worries , you are sending the incredibly mighty and bad force before you , which will make some bad circumstances , you can be pretty sure of that. Our thoughts or better said our mood , is processing all the time and is managing positive or negative thing for us.

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March 11, 2010

Why Are We Charging Through Living Without Awareness ?

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It is probably easier than one thinks to be bogged down in our life pattern, because we all do it at sometimes or the other without realizing it. We have all started out to work and we got there without thinking about the street turns, the stop lights, the detour or the exit. We just got there! Okay, let’s be honest; how many times have you done this? I’ll just bet a few…

Our entire essence is like this sometimes also, we are adamant about our routine and we can probably go through our day blindfolded. Well, almost. Having said that; think about it and think about your day to day practices. Is it true, do you realize you are living in automatic? It is frightening when we think about it but let’s go over the days actionsto see if we are not doing all of these on automatic or at least some of it.

We rise in the morning at 6 a.m.; we produce breakfast for ourselves and family (if applicable). We have either plunged into the shower the night before or before we made breakfast. We eat quickly as we must dress the children for nursery or school and have to prepare lunches and then we have to dress ourselves and make sure dad is up and dressed. We are still expediting and in a hurry to start the day, whatever day it is, because it seems like Wednesday and it is only Monday. We finally get dressed ourselves and here we are out the door with the children and off to the many stops we have at the nursery, kindergarten. We made it to work by 8:30 a. m. but the details of the morning are all very indescribable . It just happened like it does every morning, to our own amazement. Oh, we are not finished. If we can just make it to lunch, we will be fine. We will sit down, have a glass of tea or water and renew for what is about to be the afternoon. We then have our meeting and give our business plan which we did not have time to check ; oh that’s okay, no one knows what was in it anyway. So we got past that problem, we think and it is now time to make those return calls to customers who called recently and are possibly thinking that the company has lost their best employee. Man, now it is almost 5 p. m. and we shoot out the door; oh, that’s right the other spouse is picking the children up so that you can go by the grocery store and pick up food for dinner.

I think we know what went on the excess of the day and we get up the next morning and repeat the same actions again. Now, tell me if you live each minute in consciousness of each task or if you were actually in a trance doing what you are composed to do.

Is this good for anyone? I don’t know how we live as long as we do actually. I do think age has something to do with this. When we are young we have more bounce and seem to get it all done but that still does not mean that we are actually living our life the way it should be live. It is discernible that we need to slow down and take note of what we are doing. As we age, we become more aware that we need to live more in the instance and make sure we aren’t missing something. As we age we realize we do not have as many tomorrows as we once did, if we have any at all.

When we live like this; we aren’t even using our full brain authority. I believe it would suite us well to stop and think about what we are doing. We might have to take some time to regroup and take a vacation out of habitual living into a fully conscious status. Then and only then will we be truly living.

March 9, 2010

Why Is It That Most People Want To Find Success But Do Not Comprehend What It Really Is?

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What is Success? We have asked that question over a few times and we get many varied interpretations and it seems that we still do not have all the right answers. We know efforts is a key ingredient.

Success according to the Dictionary:

• achievement of intentions- achievement of something planned or attempted
• something that turns out well – something planned and turned our well as intended
• fame or fortune, money

Thesaurus Definition:

• accomplishment
• achievement
• arrival
• good luck
• fortune
• fruition
• profit
• favorable outcome
• prosperous
• effective
• triumphant

We could name more terminology but we have enough to elaborate with these. I like the Thesaurus definitions because it is inclusive of more things than just something planned, money or fame. We have good fortune, good luck, favorable outcomes; we are effective and even victorious, everyday in our life. Therefore success is not something that is unattainable. It is about accomplishments, achievements and sometimes appears to be good luck. Sometimes I think people think they will never be successful because they defining success as something it is not; and they are actually achieving the definitions listed under Thesaurus in some area of their life.

I am not one to believe that success is much about good luck. Being Successful is a part of life that you get the consequences of your labor. Success is about your plans, what you seek and how hard you strive to accomplish your desires. You work toward something, not to the finish line as it takes time to get there; if there is a finish. It is said that Success if a Journey. If one makes reasonable goals and if you work toward achieving them, they should be achievable, one at a time. Of course we individuals desire to have more wealth; and live well but that is not the essence of really living well. This is not all bad by any means, but it is not the most important approach to becoming successful. There are times that we do not reach what we set out to; these are the times we have back up and start over and find what did not work and possibly why.

The essence of living well is living within our financial abilities and feeling good about where we are. It seems when people get into trouble it is because they have reached beyond what they can afford. Success is about fruition….fulfillment, which can mean that we are fulfilled intensely and are happy with our life. Success is making sure we have our priorities straight. We know that Success consist of many areas of our life; not just in the financial or career area.

If success could be fully achievable all at some point; we would see people saying; okay, I have all it all, I don’t need anything further. I am done, now I can sit back and relax.

I do not believe that success transpires like this. I believe that success is something we walk toward, strive at, keep reaching for in all areas of our life and receive it slowly. In other words; we finally get the kids in college, we finally have them graduate, we have the college education paid for, we have our house paid for, we are going on that dream vacation and someone is working toward being VP of my company. Success is accomplishment we reach for one step at a time. Each one is a victory which has come from hard work and dedication.

Success is not all about getting to be the President of Google. It is about getting to where we are appeased with our progress toward our goals within our family, our friends, our faith and our careers. It is not all about wealth.

March 8, 2010

We Should Make Sure We Are Living Consciously To Avert Mistakes And Disappointments

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This is a place that we sometimes do not like to go as we do not like to talk about our mistakes and failures. Well, just so we all agree; these are a part of life and we know we can’t change them by talking about them; but we might teach ourselves to be knowledgeable of our actions; by reviewing why we seem to have too much of these at times in our life. Making Positive changes to overcome the dead emotions which our mistakes and failures bring is am important decision. We must deal with the present issues for us to recover and get back on the road to success once we realize we are living our life without full consciousness of our daily actions.

It is a common aspect of life and it isn’t going to change but we can correct the bad stuff by being conscious of how we are actually living our life. We get off track sometimes and some more than others. It does not have to be anything big or detrimental to living a good life but as they say “little foxes spoil the vine.” We can look back and see some places; we could have done things a whole lot better and our efforts to change will help us in the future.

There are times when we disregard signs about where we are headed and thereby, we let go of something or someone; before we gave it time to work. We fail sometimes because we look at others and what they have achieved not realizing that we cannot compare our own life to another. We must strive to listen what our heart tells us and be sure it is the right way; if that is possible. All things we do in life should have a plan, a starting point, a progression period and then when it levels off to be the normal. But I really do not think that we can ever stop guarding our behaviors, our purpose, our goals because if we stop; we get off track and make more mistakes, that have to be corrected.

When we have a relationship, we have a plan to work at it, make it beautiful, and maintain it with passion and know it takes a lot of care. Yet so many times after the new wears off, we get busy with other life things and forget to take the necessary provisions to make it as special. We forget it needs care, sometimes more later, than in when new. What do you know; somebody is unhappy out the blue. Sometimes it is too late, sometimes it can be fixed and sometimes it seems too much neglect was the final draw and we have to deal with what we call “failure.”

What is the first step to recover from mistakes or failure? Simple sometimes yet complex , but we must learn from our mistakes to live a more desirable life. Usually if we are smart we certainly know we do not want to repeat the same behaviors. We should stop living life in instinctive mode. It is said that we do not know what we are doing even half of the time as we operate our life like we do machinery and out of habit. We live in such a rush and we are programmed to just do what come natural. Sometimes natural turns into things that are not good for us and can detain us on our journey. We should start living in full consciousness and awareness. If we are to make fewer blunders in our life we have to take note of how we are living on a daily basis and decide if we need adjustments to live life better and more satisfying. We have to be conscious of how we are traveling on our journey every day and every minute.

Do You Let Fear Of Change Dominate Your Ability Of Life

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Fear sometimes keeps an individual from doing something that could change their life for the good forever, yet it is sometimes hard to recognize, control and overcome. One of the greatest fears is rejection. We do not want to feel rejection so sometimes we will not follow our heart because of it. We also fear inadequacy not realizing that failure is a part of life. If we had no failure, we would be at a perfect state in life and that does not exist. Adjustments in life are many and about many conditions of our life to include but not limited to; relationships, careers, personal growth, becoming a better person, changing our concept of life, spiritual growth, learning how to cope with a disabled child, letting our kids fight their own battles and many other situations in life. We could discuss this issue very extensively but we will actually touch only a couple of things in this article.

I have seen parents have fears for their children and they want them to have the best, the absolute best, meaning no hardships, no interference in life, nothing to upset them; and I am talking about grown children. If something negative happens or someone says something they feel is prejudiced toward them, they are ready to jump into the battle without being invited. They have never let go and they need to let the Rejection thoughts subside and change their behavior. The children are not under their watch any longer and they cannot go through their entire life trying to fight life’s battles for their children. No one can make it through life without having conflict and no one’s children deserve this behavior and they are not enabling their abilities to cope with life. They will have struggles and they will have to work through them, themselves; and remember that to live in our world as it is; this is a phase of life where we learn about ourselves and others.

I am sure there is no perfect formula to prevent the fear of change or failure or the other emotions we feel. What I do know and have learned; is that when we make a decision to do something we fear; it gives us the power and capacity to do it. It is like once we make the decision and we become fully equipped to make it happen, so that means that our biggest fear is not that we can’t make it happen, but in wondering if it is the right judgment.

We could use as an example an unhappy partner needs to make a change regarding finances in the relationship. The situation is causing frustration and bickering; tearing them away inside and it has to be stopped. The guilty spouse is simply spending loads of money depleting their saving and being wasteful. The not guilty party is trying to be level headed and fears that the guilty party is being selfish yet knows this can’t be said; so they let it go. Where and how it is going to be resolved must be decided and acted upon.

First decision needed is to tackle the fear of confronting the issue with the guilty one which appears to be biggest issue. Being afraid it will only make things worse and be of no usefulness , does not make it go away. So if it is not resolved, it will become more intense and harder to repair. What exist sometimes is the approach and the method used to confront an issue of this nature and then sometimes it doesn’t matter how it is confronted; it doesn’t work. That is when an intervention of professional help could be deferment in a situation like this. It may be easy to work through but if you don’t try, you will not know and this stands true with any given change in ones life. We have to begin before we can resolve. We have to see the need to change before we take action, but we must take action. Once we see the need and let go of the fear we can find an alternative that may work. There is nothing in life that can’t be resolved with some kind of solution, it might not be what we desire, but not trying is the greatest failure.

March 5, 2010

Personal Progress -Change Is About Self Discipline And For Those Who Need It!

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Personal growth or personal development means many different things to each of us. We are all different individuals and it takes a wise person to see they might have flaws and need to growth or change in some of their actions. Personal growth is about us and our expectations of us. The most important aspect of personal growth is how you feel about yourself. Do you see yourself relating to others, be it family, friends or co-workers appropriately? Are you living your life totally, completely and in line with how you think you should? Are you happy with how you deal with life or do you see yourself needing to change some things? Positive Changes does not indicate we are necessarily bad. It does not mean that we are debilitated in our life or living an inappropriate life but that we want to live a more durable life.

Another individual cannot tell you that you are in need of Personal Growth. It is a conscious decision that one makes for ones self. Opposition is part of deciding if this is where we need to go. Sometimes we see the need to grow when life has thrown us a curve and we can’t get back on track, we need to learn something about whom we are and why we are reacting the way we are. Sometimes it is about success in our life; success we do not think that we have. We are not where we want to be and we need help to remove the obstacles that seem to be standing in the way.

I have seen very egotistical people who seemed to think they know all the right ways and it is their way or no way. It seems that the people who need personal growth the most are carrying around baggage and do not even realize it. They are baffled, intolerant and suspicious of others or they would not be trying to prove they know it all. No one knows it all, not today, not yesterday nor will they tomorrow. It does not matter how intelligent one is; it is how they relate themselves to other people. They think everyone else is lacking and they feel all of their expertise is being wasted. When in all actuality; their expertise is not visible due to their attitude.

To see the need for personal growth means you are seeking either recovery or possibly purification from something or someone. Maybe it is only that you need to change the way you perceive something that has changed you life. Influencing your self awareness can’t be all bad. It actually means you have depth of wanting to beautify your soul. You could be doing everything suitably and everybody is happy, including yourself, but in reality; probably not. I am afraid that not many of us are happy all the time. Life isn’t all wine and roses and happiness is a frame of mind and begins within us like everything else….how many time have I said all of this begins within us?

If we are happy the way we are it means we have comprehended something very important. When we get to this state in our life and we feel a sense of accomplishment; it bring contentment and a feeling of being at peace with ourselves and others.

March 4, 2010

How Is It Beneficial To See A Personal Life Coach?

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We all have questions sometimes within our life and we wonder if our decisions are being made with clarity and success. No one has all of the answers and no one can tell someone else how to live their life. We all know this, but there are times when someone can look from the outside (if we are open to allowing someone to) and actually help us decide which path; according to our circumstances might be the best and then the person that it will affect; makes the decision. Personal Coachingis a decision that only the individual can decide.

That is where a Life Coach comes in. A Personal Life Coach can help with the current and future areas of your life. They do not treat illnesses or give therapy and anyone needing medication are advised to seek professional help. They work with the attitudes, goals, and action planning part of making positive life changes. It is a part of motivating ones efforts and training ones self to see their own potential. Coaching help is to help build confidence and calm within client to help them get where they want to go. They work with performance patterns to explore new ways of making things work articulately and more accommodating.

As with any kind of personal change , we cannot get through our life without making decisions. Making decisions to do something and then taking the actions necessary to make it happen is an important part of life. Life Coaching is a place to start if there is something holding you back and you do not know exactly what it is. Knowing Ourselves is part of the deal to make our life more confident and stable.

Surviving mistakes is another part of life and of personal growth. Letting go of the past is sometimes hard to work through but it is achievable and with great success. Blunders are a part of life and we can only overcome them by admitting we are at fault most of the time and simply find ways not to repeat the same behavior and know we will do better in the future. If no one made mistakes we would all be perfect…how dull would that be?

A Life Coach observes well. They try to hear what you are not saying as well as what you are saying. They concentrate on what is not said and analyzes the actions which might be the result from what is not said. A Personal Life Coach can also be someone just to bounce things back and forth and help a client recognize motives not voiced.

Personal Life Coaches are useful with issues regarding the heart, relationships, religious issues, family crisis and career changes. They can be the angel in disguise helping you make your life becomes better and more fulfilled.

Not everyone likes to talk to others and that is each individual’s prerogative and free will, but a Life Coach can help us see things in a clearer perspective sometimes. It is not for the person who does not share their personal life with anyone and there are some people who choose not to. Again, it is strictly a personal preference.

March 2, 2010

Powerful Success Motivation

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Success does not come to us accidentally just because we are walking the face of the earth. It does not take aprofessorto discern that. It is accomplished only by work, dedication and perseverance. Not anyone that I know who has a Successful Life has sat on their backside and done nothing. Successful Living is not all about a career, it can be a marriage, personal development, managing a career and family, or just trying to make life better in general. There must be some thought given to it, a need, a plan, and a goal and then the action. Very few people are born successful and even if everything seems grand today, it could go into reverse tomorrow. Dad can give you the highest position in the Company but if you did not earn it, it will not bring about the fulfillment of starting at the bottom and working up, unless of course; you are lazy. Sorry, had to throw that in. We may think we have the greatest personality, but someone else may see us as needing some kind of adjustment in our personal growth. Your marriage may be divine, yet you may need to check in with your loved oneevery now and then to make sure they are having the same feelings.

There are Successful Characteristics that we must have and use to become the best that we can be in our life. Everything in our life is descriptive of our thoughts. Our mind and our inner spiritual self, influence everything we do. We all do have some kind of spiritual self. Look for it…it may help you more than you know. We must be sensitive to our surroundings and know that every aspect of our life has its proper place. Our Successful Thoughts can lead us into many directions, they caninduce the positive or the negative but if we work at it; success may be obtained quite naturally. We not only have to work on our plan of action, with a list of goals and intent but we have to work on the mental plan.

The first steps toward obtainingsuccess is ignited in the mind, some call it dreams, others call it constructive thinking and a lot times, it is out of necessity, but in any instance; it has to be a desire from within. There are some people who are contented where they are. They do not necessarily think about trying to improve anything unless something seems broken and if they need an adjustment some where. Successful living is what everyone dreams about; no worries, no financial issues, no health problems and a wonderful family. Everybody’s dream, right? We know that life is just not that perfect nor do we have a Successful Life just by wanting it. We have to assess what our needs are and proceed with caution, yet without anxiety .

As a general rule when we start the conversation about Success or Successful Living; we automatically start thinking about our career. I conclude that it is justifiable, because this is where we find the means to make our personal life comfortable. Money nor career can heal all things. It cannot heal a broken heart, it will not replace a lost family or friend and it does notguarantee anyone happiness. In fact it has been know that high profile careers sometimes damage family life forever. There must be a balance and sometimes that balance is what people search for on the road to finding complete Life SuccessThat is a knowledge that everyone must know.

To begin we must have Success Goals, a plan, an angle, an approach and a blueprint. The builder, who builds the perfect house, has a blueprint. To get to the finished project, he takes the blueprint one step at a time. He starts with the foundation, the layout with the plumbing, and then the outside walls and roof are put on. The walls and ceiling within are net, then the fixtures, then the paint and then the flooring. Bam the house is livable and ready for occupancy. No, that is not every detail and it is not that simply and nor is life. We have things that need fixing, walls that sometimes must be torn down and replaced because someone was unhappy with the way things looked.

It will take us first believing we have a need for a plan, plans sometimes must be changed for one reason or another. We place the priorities first. We know we need a foundation to start with and if we do not have a sound foundation, the plan can get annihilated at the first drift of negative emotions from ourselves or someone else. A sound foundation is only the start but it is at least a start.

Finding satisfaction from Successful living is conceivable at any stage in life, really. I say that it isn’t too late until we die, then they can push the dirt on me and I am done. Until then, let me sing my song, write my articles and learn whatever I can from others and in so doing find a way to share some thoughts of my own.

March 1, 2010

How Does Accomplishment And Personal Growth Blend

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Is Success within reach without Personal Growth? I do not think that it is and that is my perception. I do not remember reading anything that has said this in so many words but yet what I have read and concluded is that most successful people have somewhere had to look from within their own backyard to find the tools to ignite their own success. Having noticed many successful individuals, those that are the most successful seem to have found a certain medium and level of inner peace and strength about themselves. They do not copy anyone’s persona, purpose or actions; they became their own person without any apologies. They seemed to know the path they should take and did not allow other people’s opinion to push them in a different direction. If we are to have our Vision be successful we must be who we are not someone else.

As we study about Personal Growth and Success; we find professional information which suggest that Success is not something we actually attain and we’re done. Success is defined as a journey, something we work on daily, with zest and enthusiasm. That is, if we are sincere about and into what we are trying to accomplish. Personal Growth I believe has to start and as we grow in certain areas of our life; it helps us as we travel on our journey toward Success. It would be wonderful if we were all born perfect, not just physically but also mentally. That’s a joke, right? Not many of us are genius…but some are so intelligent that they hold back thinking someone is going to call them a nerd…you know, too smart and doesn’t have any fun and I have read that. These intelligent individuals must work toward their self confidence and not care exactly what other people think. Why does it matter, what others think? If you are blessed, share it, let others know you have something to give, do not be ashamed of a “talent”, a “blessing”. It is just as important to use your intelligence as it is for those who are challenged to work to be less challenged. If one who is not challenged helps someone who is; they both benefit. Of course it must be accepted help. Some of us are challenged for one reason or another and it makes us have to work harder but I am a firm believer that we all have the same potential on some levels; we have to find what is right for us and how we do it best.

I read something recently that actually indicates that most of the time we do not use our full brain power. We are in the habit of doing certain things everyday and we do it without thinking and in fact we are in such a habit that we are not adequately living our life; we are stuck in the unconscious. Seems kind of like a wakeup call is needed and I can relate to this message. I believe to be successful and work toward our personal growth endeavorswe need to be in the now; pure consciousness and relate to what we do every minute of our lives. We do not want something wonderful to pass us by. How can we start on our path of success if we are not conscious of what we are doing most of the time? We can’t, so our first step is becoming conscious of what we are doing, become aware of our daily activities. Are we spending too much time day dreaming and never putting our dreams to work? Are we going around with this hum drum; poor me way of thinking instead of looking within our self to see if we are lacking the courage to begin? Are we afraid of failure? Probably and …mistakes and doing it wrong the first time, is how we learn and grow and become better, personally and professionally. If we never failed or made mistakes…whichever you want to call it…we would not grown and learn. Personal growth is just as much a part of Success as consuming food is to our living.

Growing professionally will take us where we want to go and help us achieve what we need to accomplish our goals.

February 26, 2010

Acknowledging We All Inherent Human Needs

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I have a little furry friend who reminds me of someindividuals who try to be tough and act like they could care less if someone cares about them. Her name is Sugar and she is the cutest little slate cat I’ve have ever had. The mother cat was young when the four little ones were born and of course I helped in the delivery. It was Valentine’s Day one year ago and I was only home on the weekend and it appeared that Kitty Girl knew it was Saturday, so she decided it was time. I picked Sugar to be mine, because she was so furry and cute; different, but unpredictable , Sugar did not pick me. She endures me at times; but she did not pick me. She doesn’t like a lot of loving and she simply wants to be left alone. Not like her brother Blackie, because he will come to mommy every night to say good night before retiring. Blackie is just as black as Sugar is grey. Sugar possessesResistancejust like us humans.

Blackie unlike his sister; he loves to be rubbed, petted and shows his affection. Sugar looks for the highest things to jump upon to sleep usually; just to get out of the way and not be bothered. She does love to find mommy drinking tea and wants some of it but as a general rule; only occasionally does she come around to be stroked or rubbed. She will tolerate it sometimes but you wonder if she is actually gritting her teeth wishing I would quit. People with this same attitude appear to have Anxiety just like Sugar.

My question now is, haven’t you seen people like this? I have and it seems that children are the same way. They are all dissimilar and like different things but when it is all said and done, they will accept a mother’s love, most of the time. Some people do not want another person touching them in any fashion. Hands off, leave me alone; get the heck out of my sight. You know who they are.

I do not think it is not that they absolutely want to be left alone. I think it is actually a red flag and they have needs in which they cannot voice. I actually believe it goes deeper into the core of their being and they are actually longing for something they do not already have. This is not proven by me, it is my perceptions. They want to appear they are without need ; they are self sufficient and they can handle whatever comes their way. It seems that sometimes these individuals are afraid to let go and care about something or someone strong enough and had rather appear that are fully capable of making life without any interference from anyone.

Sugar seems pretty steady in her actions. Some people are the same way; nothing seems to block their actions and they would die before they let you know they have a need. I don’t think Sugar is going to change. We humans can change if we see the need.

In my study of human nature and some characteristics I found out that we humans have the same basic need. Appreciation, respect, recognition and love to mention a few. Sometimes we want to deny our dependence on any of these human emotions but let someone rub us the wrong way and be rude or show no appreciation for our efforts in whatever we are doing….it then comes to life. Some people have needs that are stronger than others, some more often than others and some too often as they produce inappropriate
behaviors; but usually at some point in our life we have these needs. Denying ourselves the ability to show human love, care, affection, friendship or kinship is denying we are human and without the nature we were intended to have. These are blessings; not a cursing, because there is nothing more wonderful than having someone to care, appreciate, respect and love who we are and us have the same feeling in return be it friend, family or acquaintance.

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