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June 1, 2010

Do You Experience Panic Attacks Driving A Motor Vehicle And What Could You Do About It?

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Are you genuinely having an anxiety or panic attack?

It is difficult to state for sure, which is the reason why it is recommended to request the thoughts and opinions from your doctor or consultant to start with. A lot of people experience various signs or symptoms; but when you experience your first real panic attack, the majority describe it as an overwhelming and absolute feeling of terror.

Some individuals have a pounding heart, their breathing rate becomes fast, they will feel dizzy and / or weak, sweating or flushing, shaking and trembling; to help name just a few. You may experience a few of these symptoms or perhaps just about all. Panic attacks are individual to each person but still frightening nonetheless.

So why do you have panic and anxiety attacks while driving?

Lots of individuals have anxiety and panic attacks driving. A panic attack is not a nice thing to happen to anyone, and it may also feel a whole lot more serious while you are in control of any moving vehicle.

If you are suffering with panic attacks while driving, then you obviously suffer from the fear of driving at a moderate towards a severe degree. Your body then reacts to the fear, so you start off being anxious and concentrating on your physical symptoms.

In which case you get anxious about what is actually happening to you physically, and this then results in being a vicious circle which leads to you growing increasingly more and more anxious until finally a full on panic attacks takes place. By means of knowing exactly what is happening to you, as well as what activates your fear, you can actually learn about strategies to triumph over your panic attacks and anxiety attacks.

Where could you look for help?

At the beginning you have to work out exactly what it is that you fear. Have a very good think about this when you are not driving. In case you have trouble with this, then certainly be aware next time you’re driving to see what type of predicaments trigger off your anxiety or panic attacks.

Is it as soon as vehicle produces funny noises and you believe you might end up breaking down? Could it be when your driving through busy traffic? Would it be if getting close to difficult junctions? Could it be driving somewhere which is unfamiliar to you? Could it be getting stuck in a traffic jam and not having the ability to do anything whatsoever about it? Can it be a historical unpleasant incident such as an automobile accident?

No matter what your particular fear is. It could be a mix of a few or just one thing truly individual for you. Nevertheless, you need to get definitely clear in your mind what it is that makes you nervous about driving. In doing this you can then do something to learn to deal with your fear.

One particular excellent resource is named the Driving Fear Program by Rich Presta. This is a detailed step-by-step guide on how anyone with the right information and determination can certainly overcome their fear of driving. You can check out our review (driving fear program review) here.

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May 27, 2010

Why Do Affirmations Work?

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I‘m sure you have heard about positive affirmations, many of us have, but do affirmations work, and if so why or how do they work? What is the magic power behind them? What power do words really have, because aren‘t affirmation nothing more than words or positive phrases? If your interest is sparked, keep reading, because after you have read this short article you will have the answers to all of these questions and more. Not only will you understand why and how affirmations work, you will be figuring out a way to start using them right away in your life.

Affirmations are positive words or statements that are carefully constructed to state your deepest hopes, dreams and desires. These statements are then used to combat the constant negative beliefs and feelings, many of us harbor deep in our subconscious mind. When using positive affirmations, the common practice is to recite these positive statements a number of times throughout a set number of days. The reason for this is because it takes time to change a belief and or a habit. The experts say it takes 30 days to change a thought pattern or a habit. For this reason it is good practice to recite your affirmations for a minimum of 30 days.

So, now let’s answer the question, how are habits and beliefs formed? Simply put, habits and beliefs are formed through repetition. Let‘s do a little demonstration to see how this works, shall we. Let’s focus on our current belief system first. Let’s say we have seen study after study saying that eggs are bad for our health (which was once the case). So our belief is that eggs are bad for our health, but then there is a new study out that says eggs are good for our health. Our first reaction is to shrug off the results of this new study because there are so many other studies that say otherwise. Then something strange happens. You here a couple co-workers talking about the health benefits of eggs, then you read another study that says eggs are good for the heart. Now, your belief hasn’t changed, but you are teetering on which side to believe. The next day you over hear a doctor tell his patient that eggs are good. At this point you are convinced that eggs are good and you are spreading the word about the health benefits of eggs.

Habits work in much the same way. The first time someone takes a puff of a cigarette, they are not a smoker. As a matter of fact, most people cough and gag. What happens is, that they have a cigarette with their friends to look cool, they have a cigarette to calm the nerves, they have one to celebrate the new year with their friends, then they have one so they have a reason for a 5 minute break out of the office. Any one of these times is not significant, but the collective events is important. What happens is before they know it, they are lighting up without even thinking about it.

Why do affirmations work? They work because we are doing the same thing we did to create our current habit or belief. We are introducing the new thoughts and ideas into our brains and then we are repeating them until eventually we have a new belief or we have created a new habit. It’s not magic. It is just the way our minds work.

The question isn’t why do affirmations work. The real question is why aren’t we using affirmations in our everyday life? Logically, we know why affirmations work. If we think back to any belief we have or any habit, in many instances, we can pinpoint when that belief our habit was first introduced. We may not have been conscious of it at the time, but now we have the power to create new habits and beliefs with conscious creation. By simply introducing and repeating our deepest hopes, dreams and desires into our subconscious mind by reciting daily affirmations we are in fact creating new beli

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May 10, 2010

What In The World Is Wanting ME!

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What in the World is Wanting ME!

Isn’t it strange that we have a place of pleasure to get what we want and we don’t know absolutely what the heck it is that is truth and is it TOO HARD TO FIGURE OUT ‘THE BEST!’ We will use the little truth we know to justify the deception we have on the BIG PICTURE or maybe this is just a little thing here or there to me! Saying I don’t care what people think but really Afraid in some kind of conflicting ‘way’. Do we really SEE the BEST! Something might yell, it’s boring, or it doesn’t have what I want, I don’t care I have my vindication-I’m a good person, etc, etc, and so on and so on…… I don’t care What Good IS. I LIKE BAD. Wherever we are at it DOESN’T MATTER. What does any of that have to do with something that Says, “I came to give you life and life more abundantly.” HE PROVES HIS STUFF, WORKS NEVER GET IT, OBEYING DOES BUT NOT HATE MURDER IN OUR HEARTS. HOW ARE YOU GOING TO HAVE THAT GOOD OVERCOMING ‘STUFF’ THAT IS REALLY SUSPOSED TO BE IN YOU—IN ANY AREA.

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Some of us know we can’t do it even if we believe it is true, our pleasures, desires, and vindications RULE US. We don’t believe HE can save us or Really SAVE US in CERTAIN AREAS even though we do believe. We have likes and dislikes, offenses and defenses. We have our desires and our judgments we use even after we know some things that are true!!!!!! AND WE KEEP COMING UP AROUND THIS MOUNTAIN! !! DO YOU HEAR THE CALL. THERE IS NO WHERE TO RUN WE ALL ANSWER IT ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. And some of us will get duller, a little blinder and those of us who are hanging on too truth the devil tries to scare us or bribe us. But something is pulling asking for some time. A place where we can settle some peace in THAT AREA THAT ‘HE WANTS TO SHOW US’. A place not of lack even though something is trying to say that. Or something trying to say that it is a lie God can’t really SAVE LIKE THAT. Whatever is saying that it is a lie is a LIE! Some of us will try to make it all a lie or make it watered down so you can do what you want OR JUSTIFY YOUR DOCTRINE INSTEAD OF GROWING WITH GOD NOT YOUR REASONING OF THE SCRIPTURES. BUT I’M SCARED, I JUST WANT WHAT I WANT AND IT ANN’T THAT BAD, I HAVE HATE THAT IS RIGHT!!! OUR INNER SELF HAS SO MANY SUBTEL REBELIONS TO FIND OUT TRUTH. I WILL USE THE WORD THE WAY I DEFINE IT. NOT BY HOW GOD SAID HE WOULD DO IT. ‘THE SPIRIT WILL LEAD AND GUIDE INTO ALL TRUTH.’ AMAZING GRACE.. IS THIS FOR EVERYTHING IN LIFE? I MEAN IT, EVERYTHING, DON’T BE SCARED TRUST HIM. FIND OUT!!!!!! FOR EVERYTHING IN LIFE, FOR MONEY-I DIDN’T SAY TO LUST FOR MONEY. FOR JOYS RENEWED THAT WE NEVER KNEW BECAUSE WE HAVE BEEN SO CONSUMED IN AREAS OF SIN OR FEAR, OR DOUNT, OR BEEN STUCK IN ONESIDED AREAS OF TRUTH.
Can you Hear the CALL IN ANY AREA OF LIFE!
That we bear PURE FRUIT!!! WHAT, YOU DON”T THINK HE LIKES GOOD IN EVERY AREA!! What, REALLY ANSWER THIS—-’HE CAN REALLY DO IT! GET REAL WITH IT. NOT OUR MENTAL RELIGION!!!!!!

What will help me start not hating?

And IF you have a Call to the Body—CAN YOU TRUST HIM TO ANSWER IT. And you have to answer the above statement absolutely or your going to be religious. YOU HAVE TO BE SAVED FIRST INSIDE NOT YOU BE GOD FOR EVERBODY ELSE.
Can You Hear The CALL!
What you think that’s a little area is it?? or weak????

Behold, the King is on Approach!

Prepare your house.

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May 5, 2010

To Develop God Gave Us Goals To Accomplish, To Grow. How?

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GOALS

We have to enjoy good desires from the Lord. What are desires, good, and solid, full of life desires, if they are true and whole and we put no goals to them? They become wishes that depress us. We have to trust that God put good desires in our hearts.

Do we really want those good desires, they might be clouded because of a weak walk with the LORD, we are young in the LORD, or because of sin. And as we all know, we need to let God create a clean heart in us. Psalms 51:10 ‘…..create in me a clean heart and renew a right spirit in me.” In every area! Some areas if we do not clean them up they keep all the other good ones from coming to fruit in our hearts and in our lives. Or you get messes and problems because of the good and bad mixed. God always puts seeds in our hearts for a future.

Jer. 29:11-14 “For I know the plans I have for you.” Says the LORD. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope (not a wish). In those days when you pray, (not beg or wish), I will listen. If you look for ME in earnest, (are you looking for the reward or the person-in earnest, look for Him in earnest, to BE GOOD TO HIM) you will find ME when you seek ME. I will be found by you, says the LORD.” “I will end your captivity and restore your fortunes (DON“T think about stuff so much think about a true HEART, stuff comes too). I will gather you out of the nations where I sent you and bring you HOME (is the home in your heart full of peace and life from HEAVEN or just stuff-lust) again to your own land.”

A future, in your heart all of your heart, and also in this life. A piece of it here, a piece of it there.

Pls 37:3-7 “Trust in the LORD and DO good. Then you will live safely in the land and prosper. Take delight in the LORD, and HE will give you the desires of your heart — this also means HE will CLEAN UP OUR HEARTS so good desires are full of deep solid goodness-FULLY good. Commit everything you do to the LORD. Trust HIM, and HE will help you. HE will make your innocence, (do we really know forgiveness of ourselves), as clear as the dawn, and the justice of your cause will shine like the noonday sun. Be still in the presence of the LORD, and wait patiently for HIM to act.
Don’t worry about evil people who prosper or fret about their wicked schemes.”

You can have a plan, (commit your way to the LORD), but without work, it stays a dream, which turns into a wish, which in turn might turn into depression.

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Try a work plan sheet and keep working at it even if some of it doesn’t come to pass a lot of goals are realized in the process sometimes before we actually fulfill them. So if you don’t fulfill one keep making them and TRYING.

1) SPIRITUAL DESIRES, GOAL (S)
A: LARGE GOAL
B: WEEKLY GOAL
C: YOU WILL WRITE DOWN STEPS TO TAKE TOWARDS
THE GOAL AND DO THEM.

2) EARTHLY DESIIRES, GOALS
` A: LARGE GOAL
B: WEEKLY GOAL
C: YOU WILL WRITE DOWN
STEPS TO TAKE TOWARDS
THE GOAL AND DO THEM.

You will list the goals that you want and the steps you will commit to do and you will commit to these goals And steps! Go over the goals with yourself and with someone else you trust. Maybe have them do Goals with you and pray and help each other to the goals. Remember the end of Psalms 1:3 “They are like trees planted along the riverbank, bearing fruit each in season without fail.” “Their leaves never wither, and in all they do, they prosper!”

If you are serious about the LORD === HE IS SERIOUS ABOUT YOU.

If you are serious about HIS WAYS and having a life here not just fire insurance from HELL, (your probably not saved)===== HE is serious and will give you the desires and means to enjoy a fruitful—full life. Here in this earth.
PLS 145:17-19 “The LORD is righteous in everything HE does; HE is filled with kindness. The LORD is close to all who call on him, yes to all who call on HIM with a sincere heart. HE fulfills the desires of those who fear HIM; HE hears their cry for help and rescues them.”

If we have good desires in us = not grandiose fantasies.

A GOOD job
GOOD Ministry Work
A Wife
A Family
A Car

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MORE UNDERSTANDING OF SPIRITUAL THINGS.

By the above scriptures, the LORD put good desires in us and if we really want to know them we need to walk with HIM and HE will bring them to pass.

Prov. 1422-24 “If you plot evil, you will be lost; but if you plan good, you will be granted unfailing love and faithfulness. Works bring profit, but mere talk leads to poverty! Wealth is a crown for the wise, (in your heart life and it produces outwardly also); the effort of fools yields only folly.”

God will prosper our plans if we work for them and get wisdom to get them and know how to use them.

So WORK IT OUT and remember God is A GOOD GOD and wants you to Know Him so YOU can have a Life.

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May 4, 2010

Self Motivation

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For over 14 years, in my two-day workshop, I’ve asked my clients if they think that they’re perfect. Everyone answers “No” . It’s pretty difficult to motivate yourself if there are things about yourself that you don’t like. And, indeed, chances are that there are things that you don’t like about yourself that you’ve been meaning to change but never do. In fact, research shows that most people have the same New Year’s Resolutions from one year to the next! And, as if that weren’t enough, people then read so-called self-help books and try to talk themselves into feeling good and being motivated.

Self-affirmation is pretty much a waste of time. Positive self-talk peppers the conscious mind with feel-good statements that don’t make the conscious mind feel good! Because the conscious mind feels nothing – it just thinks – approximately 50,000 random thoughts each day. And most of those random thoughts are either useless or self-destructive. You’re barking up the wrong tree!

It’s your subconscious mind you want to get in touch with. That’s where you’ll find your self-doubts and your misconceived self-perceptions. Your subconscious uses those incorrect self-perceptions to create your everyday behaviour – your perceived strengths, your perceived weaknesses and their related self-defence mechanisms. Your subconscious was programmed with your view or yourself during your formative years. Today, it’s your subconscious mind’s out of date self-view that creates your reality.

Your subconscious mind, which is visual, took snapshots of the things that impressed you when you were young and impressionable. Those snapshots are programs that run today to enable you behave automatically through what psychology calls automaticity. Automaticity is wonderful when it comes to getting habitual repetitive tasks done without you having to think about them. Unfortunately your entire life is habitual and repetitive, your work colleagues and your nearest and dearest are so familiar to you that everything you do to them, for them and with them ends up being habitual and repetitive. So, in fact, automaticity “enables” you do almost everything without thinking about it. You don’t even have to bother to turn up!

Research confirms that you only put 1% of you into the here and now. No wonder most people don’t love themselves – they don’t know themselves. How could they, they’re not all there!

Therefore, to motivate yourself you need to stop behaving automatically. Let’s make it simple by starting small. Stop doing little things automatically and, sooner or later, you’ll start doing really important things mindfully too. Tonight, brush your teeth with the hand with which you don’t habitually brush your teeth. The result will be that you will be more “all there” than normal and you will have started to disrupt your repetitive pattern of normal mindless living. This will attract more of your subconscious mind’s attention into the here and now, so that you’ll begin to pay less attention to the snapshots that have been dictating your automatic behaviour.

Talking yourself into being motivated won’t work – the normal person isn’t listening anyway! You simply have to be a little more present than normal – that’s all! Then you’ll be more effective, more productive, more tuned it – about yourself and life. And, when you’re more turned on, more alert and more present, you have presence. Presence will make you more impressive. So, not only will you motivate yourself, you may well motivate others around you too!

May 3, 2010

Lack — This Word. How Do We Solve It — What Is It.

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‘Lack’ 

Lack:  This word I have no taste for in any way.  Can you have nothing and ‘NOT’ be in lack and can you have EVERYTHING AND BE IN LACK!?  WHAT THE HECK IS LACK!!!!?  DO WE CONFUSE LACK FOR I ‘WANT’ OR ‘I HURT’? Have you ever tried to get rid of it by ’NOT’ accepting the truths of the world, but still have a ‘Lacking, getting Spirit in yourself’?  Or by ACCEPTING the truths of the world and being in Lack?  Or maybe a Percentage split here and there and now we don’t know why, “I’m Lacking in My Heart, my life.”? Do we understand Suffering, or being a sufferer?  Or maybe a fear of having so we stay in Lack? Is it a doubt or a lust?   How about AN ‘OWNERSHIP MENTALITY’, WHICH IS SO INGRAINED IN US WE WILL NEVER REALLY LET GO, WE WILL BARTER BUT NOT LET GO?  Oh, Here is a big one!  The Patience Place.  What, 3 seconds is Patience.  Have we gone from the ‘fast age’ to the ‘microwave age’, coming through the ’super microwave age’.  Are stepping in and out of the ‘it isn’t done yesterday’ age.  Are we saying we are believing in Quality and Fulfillment because it is a ‘Good thing to Believe’, yet deep inside we don’t know IF GOD IS GOING TO DO THAT FOR US.  Can you trust His Word that Real without feeling it?  Yes!!  But You need to know Him.  Or then you probably just believe it’s a good thing that should happen.  Anybody can believe God can do anything.  Do you KNOW FOR A FACT HE WILL DO IT FOR YOU!!!?????  What about Patience when it is consistently the same and inside you know it needs to change????  IN HARD, DIFFICULT SITUATIONS.  Do we FAIL TO BELIEVE AND WALK WITH GOD IN A RELATIONSHIP TO SEE WHAT HE IS REVEALING IN US SO WE WON’T HAVE LACK IN US OR OUR LIFE?  Or is it just about everybody else and we want to look good and get stuff too, so we will play by ‘THEIR’ rules?   Which really just makes us more mad, sneaky, vindictive, but don’t worry our platitudes of Self Awareness will cover Us. Which SHOE FITS ME?  My God I’m going to be doing some repenting, I can see it.   The Lord has shown me the last few years and of lately–strongly.  We have to dig sometimes.  Hay and stubble is what you find on the surface of the earth, but Jewels, Gold, Silver, you have to dig.  Hunt for like treasure that becomes something of worth, of value. Sometimes we are just confessing and not getting into the Substance of God and His ways and HOW ‘HE’ HAS DESIGNED US TO BE AND BE FULFILLED.  Sometimes having stuff is not having faith or Security that is real.  IT IS JUST ‘COMFORT.’  And sometimes we go so far that the Lust has become our Life and we HAVE TO FILL IT —IT DEMANDS THAT WE DO!!  BUT KNOWING GOD’S GOODNESS INSIDE YOURSELF AND HIM FULFILLING THOSE PLACES.  HIM—–FULFILLING THEM—THAT REALLY FILLS LACK!!!  NOT US REACHING AND COUNTERFEITS REPLACING THE EMPTY PLACES. 
We will use emotions to counterfeit, fill the lack, self righteousness to fill it, sin to fill it,  even of RIGHT WORDS AND WAYS–BUT OUT OF CONTEXT WITH THE REAL WORLD OF GOD’S SPIRIT AND ‘HIS LIFE’ TO US.  NOT OUR DEFINITION OF IT TO HIM!!
LOOK INTO YOUR MIND AND HEART….BE STILL AND SEE.  DON’T USE OUR INTERPRETATION, LET GOD INTERPRET.  DON’T HIDE IN A SHIELD OF JUSTIFYINGNESS—-YOU  WANT TO BE FREE, YOU WANT TO BE FULFILLED????   ARE YOU DEFINING GOOD WORDS WITH YOUR INTERPRETATION INSTEAD OF ALLOWING GOD TO GIVE THOSE ‘WORDS’ REAL LIFE AND MEANING SO THEY CAN PRODUCE.
AND IF YOU CAN’T HEAR GOD THAT CLEARLY YET, HANG IN THERE—YOU BE SERIOUS WITH HIM AND HE WILL BE SERIOUS WITH YOU.  HE IS PROBABLY CLEARING SOME JUNK OUT OF THE WAY SO WE CAN HEAR HIM.   I’M NOT TALKING AUDIBLENESS.  AND IF YOU OBEY HIS WORD FROM A HEART OF LOVE FOR ALL FROM GOD YOU WILL START TO UNDERSTAND MORE AND HEAR MORE.  THIS IS NOT YOUR CORRECTING—JUDGING EVERYONE.  THIS IS JUST YOU OBEYING FROM ALL DEEP DOWN; CLEAR LOVE AND THINKING GOD LOVES MORE, NOT JUDGING—LET GOD TEACH HOW TO JUDGE.  LET GOD’S LOVE FLOW, NOT OUR FEARS OR HATE.

A part of how to be in peace.

Can GOD speak into us. into those places we need?  Can we trust HIM to Reveal and Keep HIS WORD.  Some people say we can’t have a real FELLOWSHIP WITH GOD even though they are saved, but JUST A ONCE IN A BLUE MOON MOMENT. But everywhere in the Bible God demanded Fellowship and Faith. How can you get to know what someone means if you can’t have fellowship with Him?  THAT’S INSANE, WOULDN’T YOU REALLY SAY?  WE COULD GO and do go TOO FAR LIKE KIDS IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT IT’S NOT LIKE YOU DON’T WANT A REAL REALTIONSHIP WITH YOUR KIDS, YOU WANT TO DEVELOP THE RELATIONSHIP SO YOU CAN COMMUNICATE ABOUT THE WORD, THE ORDER OF THINGS THAT YOU’RE TRYING TO TEACH THEM.  YOU BELIEVE HIS WORD AND IT STARTS TO COME ALIVE TO YOU AND YOU BELIEVE GENERALLY, TOO!!!!   AND YOU DON’T VARY AND YOU TRUST GOD TO WALK MORE CLOSELY WITH YOU AND SHOW YOU MORE, NOT YOUR MIND OR YOUR IDEA OF IT.  

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And then you have these other ones who won’t let you even believe you can walk and talk with God—Your FATHER.  They love to use the ‘Word’ and say that you don’t believe in it.  Yet anyone whoever Heard Their Father Talk would never ‘Want God to Change HIS WORD.’ BECAUSE HE GIVES THE WORD ‘LIFE’.  AND LIFE MORE ABUNDANTLY.  THAT’S A HUGE ‘LACK’ WOULDN’T YOU SAY?  And we are not saying we got to hear God at every Corner say this say that, THAT IS JUST PLAIN WEIRD, and I’m not saying that’s wrong it just doesn’t fit FAITH, nor does not hearing HIM fit FAITH.  Where is the confidence if God Created things to Prove HE IS GOOD?  So we get Both, But you’ve got to believe in ‘Relationship’ so you can have ‘fellowship.’   Do we want to hear God say what color of dress to wear, what to do?  Yet at times He might enjoy telling you that and you might need to know that direction!  There is no “FAITH” if you DON”T BELIEVE HIS WORD.  IF YOU DON’T BELIEVE HIS WORD YOU REALLY HAVE NO RIGHT TO HEAR HIM SPEAK.  YOU’RE JUST TRYING TO MANEUVER TO GET SOMETHING YOU WANT!!!!
BUT OH, IT IS SO GOOD TO HAVE A WALK WITH A GOD YOU CAN TRUST WITH HIS “WORD” AND “WHEN’ HE COMES TO US, OR US TO HIM, AT TIMES  TO HAVE FELLOWSHIP WITH EACH OTHER—-THAT HE CAN AND WILL EXPLAIN, FILL, AND SHOW YOU DEEP MEANINGFUL THINGS THAT WE WERE DESIGNED FOR,  THAT HE IS, THAT HE WANTS US TO KNOW ABOUT.—–THAT IT IS REAL.  YOU GET BOTH, THE TRUST OF THE ‘WORD’, AND THE ‘FELLOWSHIP’ THAT CAN POINT YOU, CLEAR THE LAYERS, EMPOWER YOUR EYES OF YOUR HEART. SO THAT HIDDEN PLACE OF DEEP DARKNESS CAN BE ‘WORKED’ OUT SO IT IS NOT THERE ‘NO MORE!’ AND THAT AREA OF LACK OR WHAT IT REALLY IS YOU CAN DEAL WITH AND BE FULFILLED.  THERE ARE ALOT OF DIFFERENT LACKS BUT NOT HEARING HIM LEAD BRINGING REVEALING TO YOU—-HIM SPEAKING IS A GREAT LACK.  YOU CAN BELIEVE ALL YOU WANT AND NOTHING HAPPEND BECAUSE YOU REALLY DON’T KNOW WHAT OR HAVE A CLUE TO WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON AND YOU NEED A LIVING WORD FROM GOD TO OPEN THINGS UP FOR YOU AND THAT AREA OF LACK GET FILLED.  AND ‘HE’ WALKS ACCORDING TO HIS ‘WORD’.  WE LOVE TO REJECT HIS VOICE…..HE SAID TO ME.   Why then do we get this Hard Stand against the air.  Who do you think that is?  Or we know He is THERE AND WANTS TO LEAD US AND WE RECEIVE, START TO RECEIVE.  We all go through this but some of us learn to Love Him and His ‘Word’ so when His Voice does speak we get the life and the impartation of what we need.  He guides us to His ‘Word’ and fulfills us.   I really wasn’t planning on going this way with this page at all, but the Lord kept leading and He injected a few parts there.

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April 28, 2010

You Have To Count The Cost If You Want Something Worth More Than Your Dreams.

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‘Counting the Cost.’

Not the Loss–(you think His Good produces Hell Hate and No Real Life when Really our so called Good doesn’t fulfill the Fullness of Life in every area).

Of a mutilated Rejecting disposition of????? Is that what He is asking—–NO!

To get rid of wickedness yes but not mutilation self-righteousness or hatred that acts like God.

Don’t think HE can do it?

Really???????

‘A LIFE’ OR A REAL CARING FOR ‘OTHERS!!!!’

Are we trying to ‘BE SELF MARTRYS AND THINK THAT IS WHAT GOD WANT’S SO WE REJECT HIM BECAUSE WE THINK WE REALLY KNOW WHAT ‘COST’ IS. I’m going to hate my mom, my dad, my job, my life or is it to Love Him Fully so we can enjoy our job, our mom, or dad even if we can’t be apart of their ways. Can that Love—Power of Christ pay that cost for US. Can you measure it out that He did it. Don’t be a bad looser using faith to cover it up because of shame, of rebellion, of you think IT’S A LOSS OF ANYTHING GOOD–In other words you think there is no good in it. Believing a lie thinking the ‘Cost’ is for ‘Junk’!! It is for the junk but we think the junk is no—to Love our mom, our job, our wife, or ‘Souls’ that need to know Gods salvation not I’m going to say I love God so I can say God kill you! Let God save us from our sin. Look at these words if we are brave enough with an openness to hear what they say. What they really mean.

25 “Now great multitudes went with Him. And He turned and said to them, 26 “If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple.”

Now do we really think God wants us to Hate our Mother. Hate our Father, our Selves. Isn’t this contradictory to the Love of God. But isn’t it bringing us to a place of how Cheap we Really THINK GOD IS. WE HAVE A SENSE OF DEATH AND LOSS IN US THAT WE BLAME ON GOD OR THE GOD OF KILLING VIDICATION EVEN THOUGH WE MIGHT BELIEVE HIS WORDS WE DON’T GET HIS WORDS OF HIS LIFE THAT GOD MEANS AND INSTEAD WE GET FLESH LIFE WHICH IS SELFISH AND HAS REAL HATRED TO MAN, PREDUJUICE COVER UP IN SOME OTHER AREAS TO JUSTIFY OUR PREDUJUICE IN OTHERS. WE WILL USE ‘SOULS’ NEED TO BE SAVED OVER LOVING YOUR WIFE AND LIVING A LIFE TO TAKE CARE OF HER—ARE YOU AFRAID BLESSING WILL MAKE YOU HATE SALVATION. OR WE WILL GO THE OTHER WAY LOVE YOUR WIFE AND KIDS AND NOT BELIEVIN ‘SOULS’ GETTING SAVED AFRAID OR JUST PLAIN IN REBLELLION TO GOD TRUST HIM IN BOTH. WE WILL USE THE MAKING OF MONEY OVER SOME AREA GOD WANTS US TO DEAL WITH HIM SO WE CAN HAVE OUR LIFE. WE USE OR ‘PLAY’ TIME OVER HIM IN SOME AREA HE WANT’S TO DEAL WITH US IN. OUR SCHOOL TIME, OUR DATING TIME. ETC…. OR OUR TIME IN ‘HIS WORD’—’HIS WAY’ TO SEE ‘LIFE’! REMEMBER HE IS NOT ASKING YOU TO PAY FOR SIN JESUS DID THAT.

27 “And whoever does not bear his ‘cross’

(THE CROSS IS HIS WILL FOR YOUR LIFE NOT TAKING ON SIN OR SAYING GOD CAN’T LOVE LIKE THAT. REMEMBER SIN IS ALREADING KILLING YOU DON’T HAVE TO) and come after Me cannot be My disciple. 28 For which of you, intending to build a tower, does not sit down first and count the cost, whether he has enough to finish it— 29 lest, after he has laid the foundation, and is not able to finish, all who see it begin to mock him, 30 saying, ‘This man began to build and was not able to finish’? 31 Or what king, going to make war against another king, does not sit down first and consider whether he is able with ten thousand to meet him who comes against him with twenty thousand? 32 Or else, while the other is still a great way off, he sends a delegation and asks conditions of peace. 33 So likewise, whoever of you does not forsake all that he has cannot be My disciple.”
WHY DOES ‘HE’ SAY JUST GIVE UP!!!!????????? ALL……..!!!!!!!!

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Because HE paid ALL the COST TO GIVE US THAT ‘LIFE’! in ALL areas of Life. So He can fulfill our lives. If you do have a loss or sacrifice it because LIFE a Place of HIS SPIRIT and not a Bad Looser Spirit part child of Hell. You find You WIN in all Areas. “Steward”–that’s all we really are!

Or do we say too it’s all right to hate someone else’s mom, son or daughter to cover up not trusting the LOVE OF GOD!

Tasteless Salt Is Worthless
34 “Salt is good; but if the salt has lost its flavor, how shall it be seasoned? 35 It is neither fit for the land nor for the dunghill, but men throw it out. He who has ears to hear, let him hear!”

Bitterness sucks, fear sucks, thinking God has no Beautiful Reward for YOUR HEART SUCKS!!
Let Him save us from our’ Sin’ of not trusting His disciplined Life in every area that we are called. ‘Do you know that God called you to Die and be mutilated and preach hatred to man’—- Who told you that? The Cross represents ‘THE WILL OF GOD FOR YOU’. DON’T BE AN IDIOT AND THINK YOU GOT TO DIE FOR OTHER PEOPLES SIN. THAT WAS JESUS’S CROSS NOT YOUR!’ WE ARE TO KILL OUR FLESH SO WE HAVE ‘BLESSING’ IN US AND FOR OTHERS. SIN ALREADY KILLS WE DON’T HAVE TO AND GOD JUDGES NOT US. LET GOD JUDGE NOT YOU. YOU COULDN’T KILL JESUS UNTILL HIS TIME. WHO DO WE THINK WE ARE SOME SELF-MARTYRS?

17 “And He was handed the book of the prophet Isaiah. And when He had opened the book, He found the place where it was written:
18 The Spirit of the LORD is upon Me,
Because He has anointed Me
To preach the gospel to the poor;
He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted,
(do we want to heal broken hearts or killem Jesus mentality oh they are not Sinners like us huh. Like you weren’t a sinner too huh. God ‘Word’ says you were!)
To proclaim liberty to the captives
and recovery of sight to the blind,
to set at liberty those who are oppressed;
19 To proclaim the acceptable year of the LORD.”

Now these are good words to live. Blind to See. It was Physical something Good in this EARTH. Brokenhearted. A lot of people Believe in going to heaven and are Brokenhearted here or believe God means for us to have a brokenhearted mutilated life here. Can we be delivered from our Captive ‘Desires’ that are too much or plain wrong??? Did He pay the price? Can we ‘SEE’ His life to US that He did to give us Like He lives or are we going to believe our own kind of hatred. Or allow the ‘Devil’ to say He is Bigger that God! He heals eyes too. How about BEING OPPRESSED WANTING AND TRYING TO WALK WHAT WE BELIEVE TO HONOR GOD AND REALLY MEAN THE ‘BEST’ WE CAN. IS THAT OPPRESSION FROM GOD, OUR SIN, OR THE ENEMY? ARE WE GOING TO COVER UP SO WE DON’T HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT? HE PAID FOR IT SO HE COULD DO IT IN US. NOT US. WE CAN TRUST HIM. How does God want you to ‘LIVE’ so Saved that you Have a Heart that expresses Gods Saving Power if He wants you to have a Brokenhearted mutilated life?

Our selfishness is what does that and says it’s God so we don’t go on with God or our little judgementalism.

How about some more life

20 “Then He closed the book, and gave it back to the attendant and sat down. And the eyes of all who were in the synagogue were fixed on Him. 21 And He began to say to them, “Today this Scripture is fulfilled in your hearing.” 22 So all bore witness to Him, and marveled at the gracious words which proceeded out of His mouth. And they said, “Is this not Joseph’s son?”………………he talks about a Prophet not be accepted after this statement here and how God goes to some places probably where he is received and then the people become like these next verses.
We hear gracious words. Are we then going to turn His ‘Word’ into the devils nature to justify our Rebellion?

28 “So all those in the synagogue, when they heard these things, were filled with wrath, 29 and rose up and thrust Him out of the city; and they led Him to the brow of the hill on which their city was built, that they might throw Him down over the cliff. 30 Then passing through the midst of them, He went His way.”

You couldn’t kill Him– why, do we think our life is going to be junk following God. Do we want to throw Jesus over the Cliff in our life so He will quit talking to us? Do we Really Count the Cost that He Paid for and Kill our Doubt, our Fears, and our Pride to Prove something. To Make God FIT IN OUR BOX!!!! Do you think God has that Power to give you that ‘Life’ not Loss? Are we counting something we can’t pay or ever do?
But He did it!

And WILL WE LET HIM DO IT IN US!!!!!!
We can have a Heart of I’m not going to get over it—Bad Looser heart. And we are actually hanging on to loss trying to make it a winning in an area. In other words we are killing what we REALLY MIGHT WANT TO LOVE BECAUSE WE WON”T LOVE THE “ROOT”!!!!!! JESUS THE PURE LOVE OF GOD TO US. BE JESUS’S DISCIPLE DON’T USE COVER UP SO YOU DON’T HAVE TO BECOME GOOD TO KEEP SIN OR FEAR TO NOT TRUST HIM. BECOME A GOOD BAD LOOSER THAT GET’S RID OF THE JUNK. When you become a Good Bad Looser you become a winner. Being able to love your Father, your Mother, Your Brother+Sister, Wife, EVEN YOUR OWN LIFE. YOU WON’T HAVE A REAL LIFE UNTIL YOU DO. YOU MIGHT HAVE A FEW TASTE OF LIFE BUT NOT LIFE. DO YOU THINK WE COULD ‘SEE’ JEUSUS DO IT WITHOUT
‘MOCKING HIM.’

If God wants you to Love Him Like He loves people and Have a life. And if your family or friends don’t live like Gods way—-’YOUR SAFE’!!! and HAVE A LIFE TOO!!!!! then you move on in Christ but don’t use you moving on as excuse to not believe God doesn’t have anything Good because you want some kind of sin in some other area. Do we think God ‘tortures’ for His Life to Us? Is His Life torturous????? Are we to be tormented for Life, His LIFE? Do we think that it is Him speaking that or our fear or sin to cover up not following and believing so it will produce that ‘GOOD LIFE’? Do you think the devil can put a vibe on you to believe/feel like it torturous to have a life with God and we know better but we will ignore it and blind our eyes and hearts to hear God and it is the devil talking not God and we blame God. Didn’t the Devil use scripture against Jesus but with the wrong nature? Right Scripture wrong nature using the ‘Word’ out of context.

Romans 14:17-18 “for the kingdom of God is not eating and drinking, but righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit. 18 For he who serves Christ in these things is acceptable to God and approved by men.” Not self-mutilation with Wrath to make you feel saved to the lost or hurt, or oppressed, or broken people. Or judging the Church and you being the evil nature of judging so you look good!!

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Remember GOD SAVING YOU and let the HOLY SPIRIT IN THAT STAND AGAINST SIN. Don’t let condemnation, powerlessness, or getting away with sin idealism reign in you. These traits will keep you beckoned away from receiving a Real Salvation. The nature of Evil is in these traits. Evil tries to Live not Love and let Love Judge. How do we become Bad Losers? Do we think or allow what God says to become Torture to Our Ears????? Why?? It’s not So! Look at your kids and if God says we are evil when we are trying to be good so He can Prove that we have hidden traits of Evil. He says, “We being evil would give good gifts to our Kids, how much more Our Heavenly Father.” Now is He lying or telling the truth. Do you love You Mother, Father, Wife….etc….., Life more than Jesus. Walk this through ever area of your life. Don’t mix sacrifice with Honest Salvation. We try to do things By ‘WORKS’!!! We just need to GET SAVED even AFTER BEING SAVED. IT’S CALLED GROWING IN ‘GRACE’ NOT LAW!!! GRACE IS A HIGHER STANDARD AND IMPARTS THE ‘ABILITY’ TO KEEP WHAT IT SAYS TO DO NOT JUDGE TO COVER UP TOO. DON’T LOOK IN YOUR HEART TO LUST OR YOUR GUILTY GRACE SAYS. SO IT MUST GIVE US THE ABILITY TO GET IT OUT OF US AND ENJOY THE ‘REAL’ LIFE AND GOODNESS IN THAT WAY IT WAS MENT TO BE OR GOD IS A LIER AND CAN’T SAVE. When you think the ‘WORD’ is torture you don’t Really Count the Cost even though you think you are. You are actually counting the sin as a better reward than God saying He has better even than what we think is Good. He DOESN’T WANT YOU TO ‘HATE’ YOUR MOTHER. HE WANTS A MATURER LOVE FOR HER AND EVERYONE IN YOUR LIFE AND EVERYTHING, JOB, VACATION, YOUR TREES, YOUR FEARS TO BE GONE!!!!!!!!! Don’t think that a ‘Divine’ unbreakable Person you could touch Him in any area with Death, (You couldn’t and can’t kill Real FRUIT OF GOD OR JESUS). REMEMBER HE LAYED DOWN HIS LIFE NO ONE TOOK IT. Or maybe we like sin or even temptation, which brings us to want to kill God in some area of Life. When we are Just Steward and think we Posses Something. We really want to get what we want our Way. Our Way, even if we agree God is right. Did you know the enemy will try to provoke torture so you will give up on the ‘Word’……!!!!! You can have a half-life as long as he can torture you in denying the “Full Way of God” in every AREA. RIGHTEOUSNESS (LOVE), JOY, PEACE IN THE HOLY SPIRIT IN EVERY AREA. LOVE IS NOT AN EMOTION. IT PRODUCES ‘GOOD’ STUFF AND STOPS SIN IN YOUR LIFE.

It produces good emotions too.

April 6, 2010

Social Anxiety Disorder : The Effect It Has On People

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It’s not uncommon to have a social anxiety disorder. It’s estimated that as many as 10% of the population suffer from this disorder at some point in their lives. Some suffer from the disorder when they experience any kind of social situations, while some only suffer from it during certain social situations, such as presenting at an event, speaking in public, or when performing in front of an audience. Sufferers are aware that these fears are unreasonable but that doesn’t stop them from being excessively anxious. Overcoming social anxiety is crucial because if unchecked and untreated, it could lead to a more severe social anxiety disorder which can even greatly interfere with your daily life and it may lead to needing professional psychiatric help.

There is no easy solution, but there are definite means of overcoming social anxiety disorder. Those suffering from social anxiety disorder deal with this problem every day. Feeling extreme fear or anxiety can be caused by simple things such as the ringing of the door bell, answering the phone or the idea or going to the mall with other people. Those who suffer badly from social anxiety disorder may do their best to avoid whatever social situations that they can. Skipping classes, meeting and parties is far from uncommon, and, as you can imagine, this makes it difficult to make progress and to achieve goals and objectives. They don’t show up at the events for fear that they will do something that will humiliate or embarrass them. If they do show up, they will not get involved.

No one knows the exact cause of social anxiety disorder. Children who are shy often suffer from the disorder as adults. A person’s upbringing can also be a factor that causes one to experience it – a person with overly critical or overly protective parents are more prone to suffer from social anxiety disorder. Some research has suggested that it could be due to imbalances in chemicals in the brain, but studies have not proved to be conclusive. Whilst the causes of the disorder have not yet been established, good progress has been made with the methods of treating it. The most successful technique that’s used is one called cognitive behavioral therapy, which is carried out by specially trained therapists. Cognitive behavioral therapy helps in overcoming social anxiety by replacing negative thoughts with more pragmatic ones.

Alternatives to cognitive behavioral therapy include relaxation therapy, exposure therapy and breathing techniques. You can do it as in group or individual sessions. There are also many available books and some self help audios and videos. You can choose from the many titles out there. For those who suffer really badly from social anxiety disorder, courses of medication may also be administered. The point of the medication is to address possible chemical imbalances in the body. There are various medications available, and which ones are used will be decided by a doctor after a thorough medical examination. Medications don’t fully treat social anxiety disorder. Psychological therapies like Cognitive behavioral therapy are more effective since they deal with the cause of fear and they also don’t have side effects.
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April 3, 2010

Personal Growth- Alterations And Personal Development Creates A More Positive Life

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Personal growth is unique for all people. It is because we are unique individuals and it is how we see ourselves rather than how we see other people. Personal growth is about us and our expectations for achieving our goals and what we are seeking in life. What is really compelling is how we feel about ourselves, our real self. Not any of us are born with all of the abilities to mount every situation in our life single handily. I believe it is something that progresses as we live and learn. Not everyone sees the need for growth in their life and they are offended if someone mentions it. To me, success and a beautiful life is finding out that life can be dealt with better when we seek personal change and personal development. It means we are smart in that we know it can only bring us more well-being in life.

One can only seek within themselves for their need as only they know or can learn exactly what might be lacking or that they are possibly stranded in a rut in their life. We cannot look at other people and measure our success or how we need to perform or act. We are being unfair and unwise if we choose to do the latter. If I were to try to judge or duplicate my life pattern after my friend; it could lead to self destruction because our life has had different strategies from birth until now. The reason my friend may have progressed further in some areas of life than I have, may be because they may have had different blessing that I may not have had. We may have had different expectations, different perspectives, and different views of what might be most important in life at some points. The main goal I think is to really know what is of value in life. Values of life are not totally about having “money” or “wealth.” It is who we are and what we have done with the dash between the two dates on our tombstone…I’ll just bet you have heard that one.

I believe we must ask ourselves if we are happy with whom we are? Do we feel that our reaction toward life in general is appropriate? personal change and Growth means it is something about us that we want to be improved, something we would like to be rid of or something that needs to be less noticeable, if possible. It could be as simple as needing to be more aware of other people’s needs. This could be something that comes when we are trying to manage other people in our professional life. Are we totally focused on getting the job done at all cost; without noticing why an employee screwed up the plan? Being sensitive to other people’s needs will enrich your ability to be an influence to your staff. To me it takes a manager who is aware that the job cannot be done without a team effort of his or hers and the employees. An employee cannot feel comfortable to perform if they are afraid of criticism from the boss. Their performance will be lacking their best efforts due to the stress of “nothing is going to right” for the boss.

Our life should have some kind of plan, we have to know, the best we can what that plan is; that is if we are seeking to better our life. An individual cannot totally dwell only on themselves to be successful. We have to depend upon others in most parts of our life. Family, friend, career, personal life, spiritual life etc… No one lives and dwells by themselves; life is filled with other people that we must interact with. We must trust, and take a chance on others and if we cannot live quietly with others; then we may need to seek more personal development.

Change is probably necessary to improve. Life is about change and without change we are not going to grow. Most people have a blurred vision to change. It means I have to learn and do something different and I am used to doing it this way and I don’t like the fact it is changing….we have heard this at least a few time. Most of the time I think we become unhappy with change as we have either grown careless with our life or we are just plain old lazy and it could be because we are not taking life seriously. This is when we definitely need to “change” our views on life. At some point it will come home to haunt us. In my book; not anyone is too good for change!!!

March 31, 2010

Life Coaching – One Must Always Believe In Themselves And Their Capabilities

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Not everyone carries a PhD behind their name nor do all individuals have a title behind their name. In my book and that of anyone who is motivated to encourage others; believe that it is always necessary to have a title to besuccessful within your career and life’s work. We all know that if you want to be in a profession that requires a degree; then it will take four to eight years to make it happen. It is evident in our society that the more education and training you have, the better off you are and it will get you into the door a lot of times when experience alone , will not. Sometimes it takes more, a lot of self discipline and possibly someunderstanding yourself. Having said this, if you have experience, work hard and have a determination to go with it…you can still go forward in your career if you choose. You can also gain more education with the many online courses that are available now and not interrupt your work schedule. Reaching for success of any kind is a coursewe all have to take to get to where we need to go. It is not given to us on a silver platter.

Believe In Yourself and Know You Know Your Stuff

Believe in yourself and your capabilities but also know what the job qualifications are. You cannot meet the job expectations if you do not know what they are. If you are working for a company but want to climb the ladder to higher accomplishments…then go to work in doing it, by increasing your competence and abilities. Read the job requirements and make your skills fit those, if need be but be sure you can perform. Be the best at what you are doing; not by looking at another individual or putting someone else down, but by increasing your knowledge. It never works to belittle someone else to get what you want. If you do, you will quickly learn that what goes around comes around and you will fail.

No one should ever kid themselves into thinking you can maneuver a company into hiring you and then you will learn what you need to know. That is not the path to Success. You must learn what you need to know, have the capabilities to accomplish the job requirements and be exactly what you have said on your resume’. If you put it on the resume’, you must be capable of doing it. If not, you are only setting yourself up for failure. There are times when a company will provide additional on the job training for certain positions. When this happens you have an excellent opportunity to prove your desire to succeed is genuine. Most new employment requires a certain amount of training in the new position but it will not provide for the basic skills of the job. If you can’t type…it is not something that is on the job training.

Taking chances:

Sometimes you must take a gamble to know if something will work in your favor. I would not recommend taking too many chances in today’s job market. This is especially true if you do not have skills to justify a move to another company or a position within your company. An example of this being in your favor is if someone offers you a more prosperous position within your company or if another company is seeking you out. This can mean that someone has recommended you and has noticed your ability, hard work, and this can be a time to consider taking advantage of something unexpected. These are good signs you have done something right.

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